Hey again! I just commented on your other comment, thank you for reading my posts. It means a lot. :)
My partner actually doesn’t drink a lot when I’m not drinking, interestingly enough. If he does, it’s usually something I would not have liked even when I was drinking like a porter and I usually go to sleep way before him.
If he were to drink something that I like, then I still get the temptation or at least there’s anxiety so I can’t be around him if there’s vodka or something still.
But the temptation around others does go away! I went sober for a full year last year and eventually realized it was more fun without alcohol. And it’s also a good excuse for this introvert to go home early from a party after people start getting drunk.
I’m so happy you’re working towards your first month! It does change your life/mindset but I think it’s for the better.