What Being Public About Sobriety Really Means

Kelly Tompkins
6 min readFeb 24, 2020

It’s not just about you anymore.

Photo by Gian Cescon on Unsplash

I wouldn’t talk about sobriety when I first stopped drinking because it seemed like I was admitting a dark secret. And that feeling would be validated often. It would cause people to stop in their tracks and visibly make an assessment about me in the moment. This caused talking about it to make me feel insanely vulnerable and equally pressured to keep…

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Kelly Tompkins

Austin,Texas sober girl. Lover of horror movies, cats, and fitness. Occasional bad poet.